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the coven: a community care network

establishing a secure and supportive network that centers the unique needs of Black women and Black people

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the coven is a community care network providing access to essential services that address the immediate needs of Black folk. through community care, we can foster a supportive environment that encourages healing, personal growth, education, cultural enrichment, and a sense of belonging.

the current systems of welfare are deeply rooted in historically racial and systemic issues such as:

  • racial bias and discrimination— we often face systemic barriers that limit access to the appropriate benefits, healthcare,  and education we are deserving of, further perpetuating socio-economic disparities. 

  • lack of cultural competence— these systems do not fully understand or address the unique needs and challenges we as Black Americans face

  • stigma and stereotypes— we face negative stereotypes that are associated with welfare dependency which often keeps us from seeking out the help we are entitled to

  • limited representation— we are underrepresented in the decision-making process and as a result, policies do not effectively address the needs of our community

  • one-size fits all approach

Black women, in specific, often face being overlooked, receiving inadequate care, and lack the necessary provision to support themselves after experiencing heavy-traumatic events. through creating a community care network, one that is rooted in love, care, and understanding, we create a system that elevates the physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being of our kindred. this fund specifically supports Black women who are single moms, sexual assault survivors, and/or victims of domestic violence and will support each person for a full-lifecycle (one year).  

we aim to empower Black women and Black people to navigate challenging times with the proper resources and care they are deserving of.

by supporting the coven, you remove the capitalistic barrier that keeps Black women from living fuller, happier, and more pleasurable lives.

our goal is to be a catalyst in the way Black women and Black people prioritize their healing, their families and how they love themselves. we desire to create an environment where they can simply exist without the overwhelming pressures of capitalism and surviving. our support is designed to free them from these burdens so that they can embrace well-being.

at the core of this work, it is our mission to establish a secure and supportive network that centers the unique needs of Black women and Black people. it is high time we reclaim the healing that is so rightfully ours and build a system that is committed to our advancement.

 

 

→ what is survival mode?

by definition, survival mode is an adaptive response of the human body to help us survive danger and stress. it, in essence, is when our flight-or-fight response is activated. and as a result, our body communicates to us, essential functions only. trauma responses can feel like a lack of focus causing us to operate with a short temper, out of exhaustion, or through procrastination. survival mode gives a false sense of time— lying to us, making us believe that we have none.

racism, inequality (this includes gender inequality), and marginalization are all economic and social inequalities that mean one thing— a lack of access to resources needed to live full and productive lives. as a result, members of marginalized communities remain vulnerable to the cycle of poverty and trauma. if our psychological needs are unmet then we do not feel safe; if we are not safe then we feel unloved or have no sense of belonging and with no sense of belonging we lack the self-esteem needed to self-actualize (google maslow’s hierarchy of needs).

due to the lack of vision, survival mode can cause one to not plan for the long term.

 

 

→ evolving the future of Black single moms

check out the state of **black mothering report** as conducted by motherly.

“for Black mothers who need assistance, especially those who are on the lower rungs of the economic ladder, it can be hard enough to find them while they are busy rearing children, being the sole breadwinner, and being the emotional and foundational support 24/7 with no immediate relief in sight.” — afro.com

in 2021 there we approximately 4.27 million Black families in the US supported by a single mother; this number is up from the 3.4 million Black, single-mom-led families in the 1990s. though the poverty level of Black, single-mom-led families has decreased from 48.1% in the 1990s to 29.3% in 2021, Black single mothers are still victims of racist, sexist, and social injustices.

*stats provided by statista.com

  • 1/3 Black women in college are single mothers.

  • according to IWPR, nearly 42% of Black female students are mothers. 

  • of the 42%, roughly 78% of them are single mothers and most of them are first-generation college students.

black women enroll at higher rates even though the equity gap in college completion remains.

*provided by Institute for Women’s Policy Research (IWPR)

Black single moms tend to struggle more financially, emotionally, mentally and physically.

the adage “it takes a village” has always been true and continues to ring true for the Black family dynamic as childcare expenses prove to be more of a financial burden for Black-single mothers.

30%

of Black moms have trouble finding reliable childcare, versus 19% of white moms. thirty-six percent of Black moms report that paying for childcare “often” or “always” causes financial stress, compared to 29% of white moms. — motherly

most single mothers within the workforce are unhappy with their employer due to the lack of support through pay equity, flexibility in scheduling, and lack of appropriate resources (i.e family leave). as a result some feel as though they have no choice but to quit their jobs forcing them into welfare systems that ultimately were not created with their needs in mind. 

 

→ sexual assault and Black women

Black women are the unforgotten survivors of sexual assault
  • 1 in 4 Black girls will be assaulted before the age of 18.

  • 1 in 5 Black women are victims of rape.

  • for every Black woman who reports rape at least 15 do not.

“the struggle to protect Black girls and women remains. unfortunately, Black women remain vulnerable to sexual violence due to what we call intersectionality, the systematic oppression Black women experience based upon their race and gender. these institutionalized practices and policies prevent their equitable enforcement. because of what is known as the “Strong Black Woman” archetype (Beauboeuf-Lafontant, 2009), the dangerous single story told about Black women that uplifts their strength, perseverance, and survival and minimizes their emotional well-being, tenderness, and humanity, Black women are rarely protected.” — American Psychology Association

 

→ how:

to reach our desired impact our strategy is centered around a holistic approach that addresses the unique needs of Black women and the trauma that they face. 
  1. through financial assistance, we offer financial support to help alleviate the burdens faced by these individuals, including assistance with housing, childcare, and other essential expenses. this ensures that they have the necessary resources to rebuild their lives while creating a stable foundation

  2. through emotional support, we provide a range of therapeutic services, such as individual talk therapy, support groups, and trauma-informed care, to help each recipient navigate their healing journey 

  3. through resource referrals, we connect each recipient to a network of community resources, including legal aid, educational opportunities, professional development and more

  4. and through empowerment workshops, we organize workshops and educational sessions focused on self-empowerment, self-care, and advocacy. these sessions aim to equip Black women with the tools, knowledge, and skills needed to assert their rights, set boundaries, and navigate systems that may have historically marginalized them.

 

meet our board of directors

 

 

about twenty nine thirty

twenty nine thirty is a restorative community connecting the dots between sensuality, sexuality, healing, and wellness. through education, access, and authority, we offer a series of healing modalities that allow women to reclaim their bodies and their joy through the uncovering of their sensual and sexual self. 

our founder

brianne patrice is a sensuality doula, spirited creative, and founder of twenty nine thirty. with a decade of experience, her work in women’s rights intersects at the helm of pleasure and wholeness studying mind-body modality as it relates to self-discovery, mental and emotional wellness. her work has been featured in keys soulcare, xonecole, NBC 4 NY, voyage LA and more. 

she is a brooklyn resident by way of dallas, texas; a practicing hoodoo, spiritualist, and herbalist. and is the former executive director of mental health non-profit, sad girls club. 

she believes pleasure and the erotic are necessary gateways to healing.

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Marissa Wales
06/20/2023
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the altar is our sacred community created for Black women to remember who they are on a sensual and sexual level. this digital dwelling space offers pleasure-seeking education tackling topics like the mother wound, reimagining your erotic, sensual herbalism, healing from sex trauma, how to use pleasure as an organizing tool and so much more. 

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the altar is our sacred community created for Black women to remember who they are on a sensual and sexual level. this digital dwelling space offers pleasure-seeking education tackling topics like the mother wound, reimagining your erotic, sensual herbalism, healing from sex trauma, how to use pleasure as an organizing tool and so much more. 

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- an herb of the month

- sensual tea blend

- workshops

- more

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intimate harmony

this one on one offering provides a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore and embrace your sensuality. Each session is meant to guide you in discovering your desires, boundaries, and preferences. together you and I will discuss various exercises, techniques, and resources that will support your journey of self-discovery and sensual exploration. As a sensuality doula, I offer education on various aspects of sensuality, pleasure, and the erotic — including body awareness, consent and communication, intimacy, and expansion of your manifestation praxis. each session is recorded (with your consent of course) and then emailed back to you with a detailed report of things discussed, where and how you can garner support, and where to begin in building your sensual self-care toolkit. a set of herbs will also be mailed to you serving as an additional ally in your journey of erotic awakening.

what's included:

  • 2-60 minute sessions
  • 1-30 minute session
  • summary of what was discussed and resources to guide you on your continued journey
  • a customized plan of what it means to love, explore and advocate for yourself through your erotic expression
  • herb support
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the altar is our sacred community created for Black women to remember who they are on a sensual and sexual level. this digital dwelling space offers pleasure-seeking education tackling topics like the mother wound, reimagining your erotic, sensual herbalism, healing from sex trauma, how to use pleasure as an organizing tool and so much more. 

membership includes:

- an herb of the month

- sensual tea blend

- workshops

- more

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your swag bag includes two (2) tote bags: 

- standard branded tote with logo 

- black tote bag that says "God did not put me here to have mediocre sex"

and a coffee mug!

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the altar is our sacred community created for Black women to remember who they are on a sensual and sexual level. this digital dwelling space offers pleasure-seeking education tackling topics like the mother wound, reimagining your erotic, sensual herbalism, healing from sex trauma, how to use pleasure as an organizing tool and so much more. 

membership includes:

- an herb of the month

- sensual tea blend

- workshops

- more

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500.00 USD
intimate harmony

this one on one offering provides a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore and embrace your sensuality. Each session is meant to guide you in discovering your desires, boundaries, and preferences. together you and I will discuss various exercises, techniques, and resources that will support your journey of self-discovery and sensual exploration. As a sensuality doula, I offer education on various aspects of sensuality, pleasure, and the erotic — including body awareness, consent and communication, intimacy, and expansion of your manifestation praxis. each session is recorded (with your consent of course) and then emailed back to you with a detailed report of things discussed, where and how you can garner support, and where to begin in building your sensual self-care toolkit. a set of herbs will also be mailed to you serving as an additional ally in your journey of erotic awakening.

what's included:

  • 2-60 minute sessions
  • 1-30 minute session
  • summary of what was discussed and resources to guide you on your continued journey
  • a customized plan of what it means to love, explore and advocate for yourself through your erotic expression
  • herb support
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